"The Church Doesn’t Want You to Hear This": Pastor Exposes Silent Epidemic of Sexual Abuse & Purity Culture Hypocrisy

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Sex, Secuality, Sexual Attraction, Sexual Identity, Addictions, and Sexual Purity in the Church.



In a bold and deeply personal new YouTube video, Pastor Dr. Promise Olomo—known for his groundbreaking take on tattoos and Christianity—is breaking yet another stained-glass ceiling. This time, he’s tackling what may be the most silenced, shamed, and spiritually manipulated topic in modern faith communities: sexuality, abuse, and sexual purity.


While many pulpits preach avoidance, condemnation, or oversimplified “purity pledges,” Pastor Olomo is opening a raw, honest, and healing conversation for those the church has left behind.


🔥 What This Video Is About

In this 10-minute emotional exposé, Pastor Olomo doesn’t just preach—he reveals:


His own story of being sexually molested at 7 years old

The difference between biblical sexual purity and toxic purity culture

How the church often worships silence over support

Why topics like sexual identity, attraction, and addiction are avoided—and why they shouldn’t be


A confidential invitation for survivors to share their stories for his upcoming book aimed at offering closure and restitution


📖 Why This Matters Now More Than Ever

For too long, conversations around sex and sexual abuse within religious settings have been met with hushed tones, victim-blaming, or outright denial. Pastors like Olomo are changing that narrative—offering a scripturally grounded yet compassion-forward approach that prioritizes healing over hiding.


“You are not defined by what was done to you. And your story can be part of someone else’s healing.”

— Pastor Dr. Promise Olomo


🎥 You Need to Watch This If:

- You’ve ever felt alone, ashamed, or misunderstood by the church regarding your sexuality or past trauma

- You’re a leader, parent, or believer who wants to learn how to support—not shun—those who’ve experienced abuse

- You believe faith should be a place of safety and recovery, not secrecy and stigma


👁️‍🗨️ A Call for Courage & Confidentiality

Pastor Olomo is not just speaking—he’s listening. He’s inviting survivors of sexual abuse to confidentially share their experiences to inform his soon-to-be-launched book. This project aims to be:

A resource for the church

A voice for the voiceless

A guide for informed, grace-filled decision-making


▶️ Watch the Full Video Here:



💬 Join the Conversation

This is more than a sermon—it’s a movement.

Have you experienced or witnessed the silence around sexual abuse in the church?

Do you believe it’s time for a new conversation?

CONTACT PASTOR DR PROMISE OLOMO NOW

Tag a friend who needs to hear this. Share your thoughts in the comments below.

#ChurchToo #BreakTheSilence #SexualPurity #PastorPromiseOlomo


✍️ About Pastor Dr. Promise Olomo

A Doctorate-Prepared CRNA, theologian, and transformative voice in modern Christianity, Pastor Olomo continues to address avoided topics with biblical clarity and courage.


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