Media Girl Toke Makinwa's EX Husband Maje Ayida Says He Was Depressed After Their Divorce

Fitness coach Maje Ayida, who was married to media personality Toke Makinwa, has opened up about falling into depression after news of their break up became viral on social media....

He revealed this in a Church programme in the UK

He said:

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‎"I will be honest about the fact that I went through a divorce which resulted in me being depressed. It was a very publicised divorce.

‎And that left me feeling very alone. I withdrew from society, I was really ashamed of my situation. Not just for myself, of course, my self-esteem was affected, but legacy is very important to me. I was ashamed of what I felt I had done to my family's name. As a result, I went into hiding.

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‎I didn't want to interact with anyone. I wanted to be alone, stay at home. I stopped going to work. I found it very difficult to work. It was very hard.

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‎I not only lost focus but also motivation. I lost the essence of even getting up in the morning. What am I getting up for? Everyone already feels a certain way about me. So, I started to lose work as a result of it. That was when it really started to get to me.

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‎As a man, your work is your identity, and I started to lose work, business deals so it became a real problem for me.

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‎That was when I made a decision. I had to make a decision for my own survival because I was living in hopelessness. It went on for weeks.

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‎I was out of the look for a whole year. I checked out of life for a year to recoup. I realised that I was in a very dark space. I was in a hole but I needed to get out of it… I was on the floor. What's sleep? I didn't even know what that was. I had insomnia.

‎I was paranoid as well so the few chances that I do get to go out, I have created a scenario in my own mind that everybody is talking about me, people are looking at me. And that would just send me back into my own home.

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